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How To Stay Engaged – 3 Tips To Keep You In Your Game

Do you just feel like throwing in the towel at times? Have you ever thought to yourself, “Why am I hanging around these negative nellies?” Do you ever wonder why it’s so important to keep your mindset on positive and lovely things? Then let’s watch this video and have a conversation about it.

My middle nephew came to visit me and to help him with his career plans. During his visit, I got really present to a few things, that I just had to share. One of the biggest things that jumped right out at me was “negative self-talk.” It’s so darn destructive and yet mostly all of us are unaware that we do it in the first place. We do it everytime we dismiss our little wins. We do it when we make excuses for us not doing x,y, or z. We do it to make our friends look and feel better. I can do a whole video series on this. Yet, I only want to focus on 3 quick things you and I can do to keep ourselves engaged and on our game court.

Now on to the video!



I will confess, I was so worried about putting this video out there and sharing. It wasn’t perfect and blah blah blah. I just finished reading Grant Cardone’s book – Be Obsessed or Be Average.   Now, I am taking action; and that action is doing this. I am going to stick with internet marketing, self-branding till I get it right.  When we stay engaged and on the court, we can get things done and create wins for ourselves. You can win – just stay in the game and on the court.

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Thank you.



‘Should’ Is For The Dumps

Do you just feel like like your business ‘should’ be this or that? Do you feel like your sponsors, upline, or downline ‘should’ help you to win at your business?  We will talk about the about the power of ‘should.’ I recently learned first hand the power of ‘should.’ I can tell you from firsthand experience, that it is something else. The amount of energy involved was enormous.  If you watch the video, you will discover a few tips that can help you in your business. 




The article I mentioned referencing Hannah Braimer is here – http://www.huffingtonpost.com/hannah-braime/stop-saying-the-word-should_b_4790797.html   This article is good and worth the quick read. She’s dead on point about this, and the information can really help you!!!

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Please let me know your thoughts and comments below.

Please share this blog with your family and friends. Let’s be extra frank, we all know someone who is stuck on this ‘should’ stuff.

Finally, let’s kick butt and make our dreams come true!!!





Why You Are Already A Success?

We each have our own definition of what success is or is not. Yet, mostly all of us think success is related to money, a big house, car, clothes…etc. Over time, I’ve come to realize that success is “whatever the hell” I want to it be. Listen, if I let my wins/failures define me as successful or not, then I would be surely depressed. Instead, I’ve chosen to learn from them, make adjustments, and keep it moving.  So let’s take a new look at success…a look that I believe that will empower instead of tearing folks down because they don’t make 100k, 1 million, 1 billion per year.

Watch this video – You Are A Success.


Earl Nightingale said, “Success is the pursuit of a worthy idea.” When we start to look at success as it relates to the “journey,” which we must all take to reach our goals, then we start see, take ownership of the wins/loses/setbacks along the way. We have to take ownership of who we become as we move towards our goals. We start to make course changes and adjustments a lot easier. We then realize that the obtainment of that goal is just is the just manifestation of all of our hard work along the way. The achievement of the goal is just feedback of our successful journey.  From this point of view, we then focus on the daily routines, commitment, actions that we all must take. This is where we can draw strength, have faith, hope, and courage…for we all know deep down inside that we have to go for it.

Know if you are on the path towards the accomplishment of your goals, doing the daily activities it takes to reach that/those goal(s), then you are successful. It’s just a matter of time when you will see the results of your labor of love.

Take care!



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How To Attract Leads To Your Business

Whatever business you are in you’ve got to have people to sell to. Let’s be frank, whatever your belief(s) is/are about money, success, wealth you still need people to sell to or not sell to regardless. How are you going to do that. We all know that old rhyme, “if you build it, then they will come” doesn’t work. Look at all the closed shops in your area.  We also know that “word of mouth” gets you so far.

Just how do you get leads, find folks who want your product/services/maybe even join your business if you are in network marketing?  It’s marketing! Yes, marketing. All major companies has some form of a marketing budget to reach their target market.  We must do the same.  We can’t keep asking our friends and family, and then ask them if they know 5 people to refer to us.

I can here you now going, “Earl, I don’t know nothing about marketing.” You can probably guess what I am going to say – “Learn it.” You can learn how to market your business. As a matter, the fact you are reading this blog is even more proof of that, because I learned how to market myself. I am still learning new things – like video blogging! It’s getting better.  As you learn the skills to market on line and apply what you learn, you will start to get results. From those results you can make course corrections and adjusts. As you get leads and success, your vibration starts to raise. Before you know it – you will have more leads than you can shake a stick at. These are people who’ve agreed to hear what you have to offer.  Now how would that make you feel?

Finally, you’ve also got to do this. Now really get this. However you decide to market, just remember that people are freaking awesome and they got a lot on their plate. So if you are in network marketing, get to know them and connect with them before you decide to say “look at my dvd.”  If you are in banking like me, connect with them.  When you take your internet marketing training, hopefully you will choose a program that also focuses on personal development as well.  So important, as we all have our habits and weird things about us, that attracts to us things we don’t want.

Let’s wrap this up – I have a 90 mile bike ride tomorrow morning. Now, if you are going to learn how to market, then learn how to market on line.  Take an internet marketing course from people like EmpowerNetwork.  Also, if you decide you want to, then you we can talk.  There are others as well. Find one – try it and learn. Success is a learned. You can’t demand from the Universe a life of freedom, if you aren’t willing to invest in yourself and get the skills you need to do your part, to make your dreams come true.  That smart phone in your hand is an ally. Take the time to learn how to market online. You will be so glad you did – when you have fresh new leads to talk to about your products and services, instead of your Grandparent’s friends for the 5th time.

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Tools To Help You To Be Who You Must Become To Win

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The Slight Edge

First let me just say this – buy this book! If you ever think, feel like, wonder, doubt, or can’t seem to figure out why crap just keeps happening to you… despite the fact you’ve done all you can to keep it 100. Then this book is for you!

Listen, I’ve struggled with success and failures. In the real-estate bubble I had 3 homes and lost them. In the sales bubble, I would hit high numbers – then go back down. It wasn’t until I started to learn to internet marketing with Empower Network, that I discovered this book and why I was not being consistent in my actions. This book is knocking the gray lenses on my eyes right off. This book has shown me that it is the little things that we do or don’t do, that makes all the difference.  Success is just a bunch small little boring things that must be done. This book reminded me… that winning is in the completion of the small things. The stuff no one cares about, because it just seems so unimportant. For example in business to business sales, you must make sales calls to schedule appointments. No sale calls no appointments. No quota achievement, no commissions.  League bowler…rush the shot -pull the bowling ball to the left or right. In our rush rush society everyone wants the baby – not the labor/pregnancy. You will learn that time is really on your side. Just in chapter 5 alone, you will clearly see that time is going to pass regardless of your choices – the question is will you let time help you or let time pass you by.  One more cool thing about this book. At the end of each chapter they actually share live testimonials from people all around the world. People who have different goals and desires, and how they have put the book to good use to reach them. You and I can do the same.

One final thought. Just last week I was struggling with making sales calls. I didn’t want to call those cold leads.  However, after reading this book I was aware of the power of my choices. Yes, I could have not made those calls. And life would have continued. Yet, not making those calls would have resulted in no activity. No possibility for a closed deal, meeting with a potential client, or maybe an introduction to someone they know.  Thus I made those calls…and now I can honestly say I took the actions. Isn’t that what a 200% sales quota achiever would have done? He/she would have made those calls…and even if they didn’t reach anyone on the phone. While doing those calls, I got inspired to mail those leads some marketing materials… let’s see how it goes. When you know the power of your decisions and how they impact your goals, you will start to make better decisions consistent with who you want to be.  Get the book! 


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The Compound Effect

 Yes, I am going to say BUY THE BOOK!!!!!  So when I bought “The Slight Edge” it was recommended that I get this book by Darren Hardy! This guy is a freaking genius.  Look, I just wrote an article on the power of Be/Do/Have. If you focus on “be” then you will “do” and you will “have.” This book a tool to get you to “be” the person you must “be” so that you can “do” what must be done, so that you can “have” what you want. It’s really that simple.

If you look on page 72, you will see that he address the need to ‘be’come the person that is required to hit your new goal. You can’t be a professional bowler, as an amateur. You can’t lose and keep out 20 pounds without being a healthy person. I can’t be 200% quota achiever, as 140% quota person. It just doesn’t work – corn will never grow in sweet potatoes.

Another cool aspect of this book, each chapter has action steps for you and I to really drive home the message of the book. In the first chapter you will be asked to write out your excuses that you cling to not be a group fitness instructor, internet marketer, 200% of quota achiever in your sales job, whatever. Write out a list of small things you can stop doing that might be compounding your results in the wrong direction. Then write a list of steps you can take, no matter how small, to reach your destination. Finally write out a list of your successes. We all have them…marriage, a relationship that lasted more than a weekend. A cool thing with our parents, family, friends. Or just the fact you can sell snow to an Eskimo. We all have a lot more going for us than we acknowledge.  It’s eye opening to see that if I continue to build upon my wins, things just keeps getting better.   

Finally, this book is packed with a resource guide that’s designed to help you maximize your compounding experience. I don’t want to give it all away, go get the book, read it, and apply it – and win!!!

Listen these tools will work for any goal you have. They will work in any industry, field, lifestyle, etc. See a screw diver is only concerned with being a screw diver and being used correctly as intended. You want to use these tools to help you to become the person you need to be, so that you can start to do, do more of, become consistent in doing what’s required, for you to have what you want. That’s the only real way to get your vibrations in alignment with what you want. Your vibrations is reflected in your being and doing. If you aren’t getting the results you want, then only you can change it. The faster you realize that the success you want is waiting on you to line up, the faster you can have it. Use these tools to help you get there faster.  

Finally, I only discovered these books recently from the internet marketing program I am taking. I was listening to an inner circle audio training and they mentioned these books. So I bought them and read them. The program requires you invest in your personal development by reading 30 minutes a day and listing to an audio book. I’ve been doing it for awhile and things are just popping. The things I am learning, the person I am becoming, the way I respond to things is just different. One of my friends told me that she’s noticed a change just the other day.  So yeah, it’s worth it, because I’m worth it!!!! 

You’ve got to invest in yourself  to be a better husband, father, wife, mother, student, employee, bowling buddy, cyclist, uncle, employee, marketer…it doesn’t matter. Nothing grows on this planet without TLC! Your mind, life, and future are no different.  You must “be” who you must become to win. Start now.  

 Take care!



A Simple Way To Raise Your Vibration

How often do you tell yourself, “If only I had the money, I would start that business?” How often do you tell yourself, “If I just lose 10 pounds, I will be healthier?” How often do you say to yourself, “If I was rich, then I can just pay off these bills and be debt free?”  Here’s the tea. We all say it, have said it, or said something similar to those questions. We feel stuck because we think we must “have” this or “have” that in order to be and do what we want.  When we finally get that “have” nothing really changes…and we are right back where we started if not worse off.  In this blog post, let’s explore this notion of “have” and see if we can’t find a better way and raise our vibrations to what we want.photo-1458419948946-19fb2cc296af

Let’s ask ourselves those questions again. Now notice how you feel when you ask yourself that/those question(s)? Did you feel the doubt and fear? Did you hear that little voice say, “Child please… You really?”  Of course we all do. Even when I tell myself, if I just close this deal then I will hit this.  The only difference is through personal development and investing in my education, I’ve come to learn how to deal with this and I’ve made some real strides in my world.

Now let’s ask this age old question – when did you get your driver’s license? When did you graduate from high school? How old were you?  Did you notice something… those were at all at particular ages. You can remember the age you were at the time. You can somewhat recall those moments in vivid details. Here’s why – it’s because who you were “be”ing” at the time.

We have it all backwards in thinking if we have, then we will do, and then be. When reality all of our lives it has been be. do, then have!  Let’s go back to your driver’s license. How old did you have to “be” to get a permit/license?  In the US, it’s 15-16 years old. Once you hit that number you were eligible to get a permit. Then you had to take a test or tests…to have the license/permit.

Now I can hear some of you saying, well of course. That’s the law.  Okay – how about graduating from high school, college, graduate/doctoral school.  In order to get even a degree, you had to “be” enrolled as a student.  Then you had to “do” the required curriculum as outlined by the school/state etc and pass. Once you did all that, then you can “have” your degree.

See, I don’t think you are getting this. Let’s look at the job you currently have. I know you hate it, don’t like it, or which for something better. In order for you to get that job, you had to “be” a candidate. To “be” a candidate you had to “do” the application/resume submission either on line or in person. Then you had to “do” an interview or interview.  Then if you passed the interview/interviews, then you were offered the position and brought on board. Even after all that, still “be” with the organization you have to “do” what’s expected or better, in order to still “have” the graduation picposition.

Listen, I hope you are starting to get this. When I got it after listening to an InnerCircle Audio with my current program that’s teaching me how to be an internet mogul. I was like man… oh man! This is life right here. See I got that if I want to be a 200% of quota producer I had to “be” that person. I then had to do what that person would do, in order to have the 200% quota.

When we look out over the land, everyone is “being” who they are. We can tell by their actions, which is consistent with their being and their results. It never fails. Why do you think you feel a twinge of guilt or feel like crap when you focus on anything contrary to what you really want to be? Those inspired actions you ignore. Those pushes you to take this internet marketing course, read that book, call that person, or just hit the gym (when you don’t feel like it) are the Universe’s attempts to help you get on track to doing what needs to be done that’s in alignment with who you said you wanted to be.

When we just be who we want to be, then we will do / take the actions consistent with that person, then we will have what that person has.  Let’s say it like this. If you want to be a person who makes 100k, 1 million, 10 million,  then you must take actions, learn the stuff, do the stuff  that a person who is a 100k, 1 million, 10 million earner does, then you can have those results!  Till you be that person, you will never do, then you will never have.

If I want to be 17 mph average cyclist, then I must do the work, then I can have that result. If I want to be a successful 7 figure internet marketer, then I must do the stuff that’s required, then I can have that result.  We can look through out history at those who tried to get the results/or temporarily had the results without “being” the person who did what it took to get those results.  We call them one hit wonders, we make insulting television shows about them, they are the lottery winners who are broke 5 years later. They are family members or friends  who blames everyone but themselves for their problem(s)photo-1429051781835-9f2c0a9df6e4It doesn’t matter if you want to be a musician, artist, actor, or bum on the street. All that is required is for you to be that person, then do what that person does, then you can have the results of that person.  So grab a pen and paper. Write down what is the best you possible. How would you be? Would you take on new risk? Would you lead a team of 100’s/1000’s/10,000’s of people. Write it down!!! Yes, the best you possible. How much money do you make as the best you possible. Write a specific amount. Is it 5k, 10k, 30k, 100k, 3k per month? What does the best of you “do” to make that kind of money to have the things that the best of you want?  What kind of results does the “best” of you have? How much in savings? What does your house look like? What kind of car does the best you drive?  How much does the best you invest in your personal development? Our imagination is powerful and fuel for  the soul…so use and create the person you want to be. Then do what that person does, so that you can have the results you want. We are so worth it, because we are.

Here’s to the best of “us.”



Bob Proctor, Oprah, and Celebrities Share Their Experiences With The Law Of Attraction

Can you explain how the law of attraction works, beyond “likes attracts like?” How have you mastered the law of attraction to get the results you want? Bob Proctor, Oprah, and several celebrities talk about their experiences with Law of Attraction, and how they’ve mastered the law to get their results. 
  1. Bob Proctor – The Law of Attraction Explained

    Go back and watch this video again. I’ve discovered why I am still single, despite the fact I keep saying “I want to get married and settle down.” I’ve also discovered why I’m learning internet marketing, because I changed my paradigm about what’s possible and what I can create. Now I see why it’s important for me to stay on pace and on track. See, I was raised by a single mom of 3 kids. We grew up on the north side of the city of St. Louis, MO in a 2 bedroom, 1 bath house, that was burglarized 7 times. Yeah, according the environment in which I was raised, I should not have a Master’s Degree/College Degree/and a career in banking. Yet, after watching this video I know why I am where I am. And for that, I am grateful that I figured it out, and how to overcome other areas of my life! You can do the same – watch the video again and share this blog post.
  2. Celebrities Talk, “The Law Of Attraction”

    Every celebritiy we all know started off as broke, poor, wasted, frustrated, etc as you and/or I. The only thing they did different, was ask, believed, received, and took inspired actions to reach their goals. It’s no different than the job you currently have. It’s no different than the 5k you ran last year. It’s no different than the car you are driving, or the couch you are currently breaking in. You asked, you believed, and you received. You and I do this all the time for some of the smallest things. Our jobs, our friends, etc. Now it’s time to step up our game… if these people can do it – then we can. We already have examples of our success in the application of the law attraction. Just look at what’s around you…you asked, you believed, you recieved. Now say thank you!
  3. Oprah Winfrey Speaks About The Law of Attraction

    We create our lives every single day. Our actions scream very loudly what we really believe. Oprah thought she lost the role because of her weight, so she went to a fat farm.  She went to the audition when she got called…despite the fact the person told her it was not for the “Color Purple.”  She flew to meet the director. She did everything she knew to do and inspired to do, because she asked, believed, and received way before she got the part.  Just look around you, everything you have is because you did the same. Everything you don’t have well, it’s waiting on you.   Everything I want is waiting on me, to ask, believe, and receive. I will confess, sometimes I do get so caught up in the how. It wasn’t until I started investing in my personal development, that I discovered this about myself and it was something I can change. Now, I strive to stay focus on the big picture and what’s important. More importantly I am taking new actions to reach my goals, like blogging and internet marketing to reach that goal of always having income to fly home and see my mamma and family.
Whether we like it or not, the law of attraction is always working. We can change it’s impact on us by changing our paradigms, our way of thinking, and the actions we take to reach our goals/dreams. You’ve wanted to start that business, now here’s your chance. You wanted to send the kids to Europe for a year and you didn’t know how to create the income to do that; well now here’s your chance. You want to work from home and you are straddling fence. Well, get off the fence because your chance is here. All you have to do is take action… none of the people featured in these videos were born with a silver/golden spoons. They took action, they learned, they created their lives… you and I have to do the same. So if you want you life, then take action and create it. Check out the blogging system information listed below. Take action and get the results you want!

How Does The Law of Attraction Work With Internet Marketing

In the last several years we’ve seen products and services offered on “law of attraction and marketing.” We’ve all seen someone who claims they have 7, 6, or 5 figures doing attraction marketing. So do you know what attraction marketing is? Can you tell me how the does the law of attraction work with internet marketing?  Exactly. So let’s break this down and put this in common every day language that folks can understand. Here’s why, this stuff does work and if you are reading this – you just proved it does. I can tell you that it works, again you are reading this blog. And I don’t have the budget for marketing like a Fortune 500 company does to get you to my blog.

photo-1457969414820-5fdd86fc0b84Let’s start at the beginning.  I will not assume you know what that law of attraction is or is not.  I am not going to quote too many people, because I want to keep this on “our level.” Esther and Jerry Hicks has a really simple definition of the law of attraction, “Like attracts like.” Napoleon Hill said in his famous book Think And Grow Rick.  “We become what we think about.” If you are a negative and grumpy person, your experiences in life will always be negative and grumpy.  If you constantly keep thinking you are poor, then the world will give you the experiences to support it.  You try to take a step to get ahead, then you take 2 steps back.  The car breaks down. The gas bill is 400 dollars past due. The kids’ need new shoes for school. Something always seem to come up, and take what little money you got left over from payday. Where as the rich person’s experience is completely opposite of that. We attract to ourselves what we think about!  We can talk about this all day, because it goes into actions/conversations with ourselves (verbal and non-verbal) right down to the foods to we eat. The law of attraction is real, and works regardless of how well you and I understand its impact on this planet.

So we know what the law of attraction is in a basic nutshell. Now let’s jump all the way forward to internet marketing. Let’s connect the dots. We get what we think about all the time. Whether you think about it or not, want it or not.  So now you want you to change your world. You want to leverage the power of the internet to create an extra source of income, start a business, get clients, or whatever. The law of attraction and internet marketing doesn’t care if you are promoting life insurance, books, Herbal Life, or free tips to hell and back. It doesn’t matter!!!!!  Here’s why, the basic definition of the law of attraction is “like attracts like.”  According to the  American Marketing Association here is the definition of marketing.  “Marketing is the activity, set of institutions, and processes for creating, communicating, delivering, and exchanging offerings that have value for customers, clients, partners, and society at large.”   Now just combine them to come up with definition “the use of process(es) of creating, communicating, delivering and exchange offerings that are value to those who think about what I think about by leveraging the power of the internet.”   Yeah, it’s that easy.  If you are an insurance agent and you are looking for those people interested in insurance, you would leverage the internet to reach those customers.  If you are in selling old socks, then you would leverage the internet to reach those folks.   Now on a side note, 97% of the population don’t have a clue how to do that…and here’s what’s so awesome. They can learn and change their lives. Just a hint!!!

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Now we’ve got the definitions down. Now let’s connect the other dots. How does all this work? It works very simply. Unlike the normal commercials you see on tv/print ads that tell you your life sucks without their products, law of attraction and internet marketing (attraction marketing) works by providing people valuable content on a particular subject.  Let’s take this blog post, I am breaking down this concept of law of attraction and marketing, so that others can finally get it and realize it’s so easy! If was promoting HerbalLife, (they do have some good stuff on weight loss/diet/general nutrition) then my blog posts would be about weight lose/diet/being healthy. If I was an insurance agent, my blog posts would focus on the personal benefits of insurance. If I was a bowling coach, I would talk about how to pick the 10-pin, or how to develop a strong mental game (yes, bowling is very mental. You would be amazed.) The goal is to show people how your product/service will benefit them before they buy. Yes, it’s a fine line… because our favorite car commercials fight to make us believe we will be so happy if we just drove their car.  Where are attraction marketing efforts strive to solve a problem before the client buys. A big difference. So, in my blog postsInstagram, etc, I am trying to help people before they ever agree to work with me or buy anything. A huge difference, because attraction marketing only wants you to buy because you’ve gotten value from something shared at no cost to the reader; once you’ve gotten value, then you buy/sign up/do a dance number etc….

photo-1444653614773-995cb1ef9efaSo who’s using this attraction marketing? Everyone who wants to find new customers, multi-level marketing, direct sales, real-estate agents, major companies, everyone is doing it! Why because it works!!! Would you rather tireless chase after potential customers, or would rather have them to find you, read a blog post, learn something, and get value… and agree to sign up on your email list etc; versus the alternative. Not to mention, this method of marketing is cheaper and more effective, because the potential customer qualifies themselves…not you! See when you combine law of attraction and internet marketing, the prospect comes to you because you are putting out yourself, content, and vibes out there.  You are driving traffic to your website so that people can find you. People are reading your stuff and connecting with you.  They agree to sign up to your email, blog, or products.  All you did was to put out the vibe, took action on a consistent basis and you made a sale. If you didn’t great. Maybe the reader will share your information with someone who wants to be a customer, either way – this type of marketing empowers the buyers.  If you still have doubts, then stop and realize you are reading my blog now. So it does it work!  And here’s what’s so cool about this. All you need to get started is a blogging system, an email       auto-responder,  and to shorten your learning curve a training program like Empower Network. Like I said, you can use this type of marketing to market anything you want – donations requests, swimming lessons, bowling lessons, your MLM products, your insurance products, anything.  Go to every major retail store’s website. There’s a link for a blog. There’s a place for you to put your email for their sales. As soon as you enter that email and hit send, you will receive an email from them. They will then email you frequently about their sales, articles, etc.  You and I can do the same. As a matter of fact, when you sign up for my blog – you will get an email from earl@earlljones.com… and then I will email you every time I write a new blog post, every time I find some thing of interest to share, or when something awesome is happening that can help you in your game! You can do the same, and it doesn’t matter if you are doing it part time or full time. The fact is you can do this! 

Now that we got that done, let’s wrap this up. Anyone can do this. I was just like “WTF” when I started this journey years ago. Pay Per Click, drivephoto-1429051781835-9f2c0a9df6e4 traffic, SEO, or SEPD, or whatever it was, sounded like a bad shopping experience. I was confused and just overwhelmed.  However,  I wanted to get out of my comfort zone, improve my sales career, and make sure that I can add value to those around me.  As result, I was attracted to this program with Empower Network. Empower Network program teaches more than just internet marketing. The program teaches success mindset, abundance mindset, and personal self-responsibility/discipline. Plus, I watched several of their leaders go from broke as hell, to 6/7 figures earners. I watched them…I signed up for their emails/blog posts. So I know it works.  Now Empower Network don’t promise/guarantee any income at all – the governments frown upon that. What they do promise, that you will get out of it what you put into yourself and the program.  I’ve tried 3 others and this is the best one. I’ve got 30 blog post, 230+ people on my email list, and I had 30 visitors to my website today. I also made my first sale on auto-pilot (another term and method.) I didn’t have those results with the other programs. And the Monday/Thursday training calls are just awesome (those are free to share with anyone.) So if you want to learn more, let me know. Just put your information in the box below labeled “Why are struggling to build a profitable blog...”  and let’s ride. You can run a marathon, ride 100 miles, snow board, ski, scuba dive, etc with proper training and equipment. You can do the same with attraction marketing and make a difference in the lives others and yourself!

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How To Attract And Master Your Reality With Money

The law of attraction, like all other laws, has guidelines that you and I must follow for maximum success.  While affirmations work for many things they don’t often work very well for manifesting money alone. Have you noticed you repeat your affirmations about money with passion, while working out, while doing something…and you still have the same $5.00 bucks in your checking account? I was doing my affirmations about money..and getting the same results. It wasn’t until I asked myself, “what’s up?” that I noticed my beliefs about money was a road block.  That was 2009/2010. Once I discovered it was my beliefs about money, and worked to change my beliefs about money, I went from bankruptcy to making six figures in my sales career.   See, our beliefs drive everything around us! The car we drive, the clothes we wear, the foods we eat, and the money we make. Let’s be frank. Most people on this planet have a negative belief about money. We’ve seen families split over money. We’ve seen our parents work their butts off and have no money. We’ve seen people steal and kill over money. So we’ve created this negative image of money; yet we all need and got to have it. Here are some of the fastest ways that I know to attract and master your reality with money.

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The fastest way to switch your perspective on anything is by learning, doing, and teaching. You will never make 6 figures with a 4 figure mentality. You can’t be a 200 average bowler with 150 average bowler skills. You can’t be a 10 million dollar business owner with a 50k year job mentality. Switch your perspective! Change your thoughts about money! Just Google Lottery winners and you will see first hand how “money” did not change their perspectives at all. Money is energy and it must be attracted, and earned. This is why affirmations don’t consistently work when it comes to money alone. We have to create a mindset about wealth, how to create it, how to keep it, and how to help others create it. This why I love Empower Network and using their systems. Not only am I learning how to blog, internet market, personal development, I’m also learning how help others to win at their game!!!!  This company gets it…it’s not enough to have money…you’ve got to have the mindset to go with that money and help others to do the same. It’s a tiny shift in perspective but a powerful one.

 Experience is More Important Than Money

Most everyone is trying to use the law of attraction to manifest more money but most people are going about it the wrong way.  They are chasing money as opposed to having money come to them.  If you focus on the experience, versus the “foolishness” you can quickly start to attract wealth to yourself. In April myself and 1000+ are going to Nashville, TN for an Empower Network conference. It’s my first one and I am really excited. Knowing what I know about the law of attraction and mindset from reading, studying, overcoming set backs, etc. I wanted to create an exciting experience for myself. See being at that event is going to give me access to people who are crushing this thing called internet marketing. I am going to learn things about marketing, blogging, personal development things about mind set, how to drive value to folks whom’ I don’t know, and how to be a better at whatever is important to me that I will never learn in a book/webinar/conference call etc…  Not to mention, I am going to be around like minded people who are looking to make the most of their world, while they still have time on this planet. I am significantly reducing my learning curve by creating this experience. Even if I don’t make any money at all, it will never diminish the growth and development I’ve gained. That increases my value and skill sets in other parts of my world, which make me more money in the end! It’s that whole concept of teaching a person how to fish, so that they can feed themselves for a life time!XMOZEWMN8O

Your income is directly linked to the value you give others. So, the more experiences you have the more expanded you become. So invest in your personal and wealth development!!!   Money flows to the one who is in an expanded state.  Money never stays with the people who are just “stuck.”  The more experiences you have the richer you feel and the richer you act, and the richer you become.  You value life and the uniqueness of experiences much more than you value things. The next time you go out, just notice how you act and get ready before you go to the club, go to a party, go hang out with your friends, etc. You get your favorite tunes on, drink some drinks…etc. You get ‘hyped’ or ‘pumped up’ so that you are in right frame of mind “vibration.”  You will let nothing get in the way of you having a good time! You do the best you can with what you got, and damn the rest. The law of attraction honors that state of being and rewards you for it. You get some hottie’s digits, someone buys you a drink, you dance the night away, and make it home safely. (You are already doing this stuff.) As you increase your life experiences, (reading, learning, doing wealth creation things)  you will begin to increase your vibration. That’s why I’m going all out to for the event. I want be in a higher vibration. I want to attract wealth on a bigger scale. I want to help others to win at their game. I want my clients and those around me to be at their best, and I can only do that by increasing my experiences and growing as a person.

 Higher Vibration Makes You a Powerful Money Magnetconverse-fields

As you expand in vibration you increase your ability to draw things to you easily.  Higher vibration means more power.  There are many advanced manifesting techniques that can dramatically shift your law of attraction practices to the next level.  They are phenomenal when used with a clear intention.  Shifting your vibration can be quite hard for the average person.  When you are bombarded by the daily frustrations of the day, you may doubt that the law of attraction is even working in your favor. Advance cosmic law of attraction techniques balance you out.  They remove mental physical and emotional blocks that are unseen to your present self.  They intensify your desires and draw them much easier to you.  You will become an easy magnet for money without the struggle.  What you want wants you.  While others wait weeks and months for what they want the cosmic forces help you in manifesting faster.  It’s purely magical!

For example – you are already rich in so many ways. You can do stuff that other folks can’t. You can make the best ribs. You can throw awesome parties. You raised 3 kids alone. You got $500 in your savings account. Focus on the abundance you already have!!!!  I focus on what I have!!!  The fact you are reading this blog post right now puts you in a level of wealth that is not commonly shared. You have access to a computer and internet. In 2013 according to the Census Bureau, about 15% – 20% of Americans did not have a computer or internet access.  30% or more didn’t have a smart phone with internet access.  In fact, there are millions more around the world with a computer/internet. You have something abundance in their eyes. Also, the fact you can read this blog means you have some form of an education. Did you know that an education is still a luxury for millions? There are over 800 million people world wide that can’t read or write, according to Buildon.org.  Yet, you and I can. You have more abundance around you then you realize, when compared to the rest of world. You are already rich. Celebrate the success you already have!!!!  So latterly go around your house and start to give thanks for what you already have!  Even if your car is on it’s last leg, so sit in it and just give thanks for it. Need new clothes, give thanks for the ones you have! Need a new place to stay – give thanks for the one you have. Want a new job, give thanks for the one you have!!!  If you focus on the good you already got, then you must get more of that good. If you focus on the crap you have, then you get more crap.


[fancy_box id=1]“To believe in something, and not to live it, is dishonest.” ― Mahatma Gandhi[/fancy_box]

Finally, we must always take actions!!!! Action, action, action, action!!!! I can’t say this enough. You can read because you learned and practiced. You can walk, because you learned and practiced. Everything you do/did/have/bought/got was only achieved by action. No one plays football on the field sitting at home doing nothing. You can’t even have sex without “action.”  No thinking/law of attraction etc will ever change the power of action. I will admit it’s a challenge. You just want to come home and not do a damn thing.  You get discouraged, feel defeated, and the battle you can’t seem to win. But, I’ve got news for you – what you want wants you more. The success you want, wants you. The car you want, wants you. The husband, that God made for you wants you…(not that trick you met online.)  That credit card debt you want to eliminate, wants you to pay it off. Everything wants you to be the best and live your best life. The better you live, the better others can live. We can only live our best lives when we take the first step!

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3 Major Blocks To Manifesting Your Success

If you ever found yourself wonder why “success” just slips through your fingers, then you should keep reading.  Success is something that we all want. It comes in a lot of different shapes and sizes. Yet, it eludes most of people because there’s things in their way.  This is a huge topic as there are numerous reasons as to why you fight and struggle to reach your definition of success. So we will take this in chucks.

1.  Let’s start with this simple reason. What Is Your Definition Of Success?   Can you answer the question? Most of the people reading this blog have no idea of what success looks like. They can tell you want it is not, however they can’t tell you what it is. People can tell you about what they don’t want, how they don’t want it red, or they don’t want to have to work really hard. Yet, they can’t tell you what is their definition of success.  Therefore, by default, people always get exactly what their definition is not. Let’s read that again. Since you can’t tell the Universe, Source, God what success is for you, then by default you get what it is not for you.  So if it’s not red, white, and blue, that’s all you get because that’s all you are focused on. We always get what we focus on!!!  This is basic law of attraction 101/201/301.

The fastest way to fix this is to define for success for yourself. It can be anything….an extra $1000 per month, or 200% of your sales goal, or $500 extra per month, or living in a 2 bedroom apartment with 1 roommate. It can be whatever you want. You have to say what it is instead. How do I know this? Just look at the world around you. Go outside, take a walk and just notice nature. See all the vegetation growing. See the life around you and it’s all focused on one thing. Being successful and abundant. Animals move towards food sources. Plants bends towards light sources. Even our DNA is very specific about what color, shape, size, etc we are. We must do the same. How frustrated do you get when people are wishy/washy with you over what’s for dinner.photo-1453974336165-b5c58464f1ed

So pull out a pen/pencil and paper and answer these questions:

1. How much money do you want to make a year?   (150k, 300k, 48k, 65k?)

2. What kind of car do you want?

3. What kind of business/job/career do you want?  (Nurse, lawyer, multi-level marketer, educator, EMT, military) (Success is so different for everyone.)

4. How much do you want to travel in the year? 

5. How much do you want in savings?

6. What kind of home do you want or apartment do you want to rent?

7. What kind of education do you want to give your kids?

8. How much do you want to give to your church, favorite charity, etc?

9. How many days a week do you want to work out with your personal trainer?

10. How many educational/personal development training programs do you want to attend?

11. How much money do you want in savings?

Now these questions will start to get the juices pumping and flowing.I think you are starting to get the picture.  A very good book that I read that got me to change my thinking about success and what it means for me was  “You Were Born Rich” by Bob Proctor.  It’s a damn good book and if you read it and go through the exercises you will realize that you can have your definition of success. Here’s a secret. It takes the same amount of energy to focus on what you want, as it does to focus on what you don’t want.  So know what you want – focus on it – and of course take action(s) to get it!!!! The law of attraction can only give what you focus on – positive or negative.

2. Failure to take full responsibility for themselves and their actions. Now maybe you know what you want. Maybe you’ve takephoto-1442473483905-95eb436675f1n some actions to get it. It didn’t work out.  Whom do you blame?  If you say anything other than yourself, I invite you to consider you are the source of the problem.  Look… if you are in Amway and 100’s of people are making their mortgage payment with the business and you aren’t, then it is not the company.  If you are in sales with a bank and 50% of the sales force is over 100% of quota and you are at 60%…is it the bank or the products that’s the problem?   The common denominator is YOU!  You’ve to always take responsibility for you and yourself alone. No matter what’s going on around you. No matter how many are not winning, getting ahead, or producing results, you can only account for yourself and your actions. It doesn’t matter if your company has a crappy website. It doesn’t matter if your up-line doesn’t hold team hang out or training webinars.  You shouldn’t care if the teacher is crappy and can’t spell “I” on the board.  You’ve got to pass that class to graduate and get that degree. All you must care about is “taking full responsibility” of your actions and your results.  This is the second biggest reason why “success” just eludes people. They fail to be responsible for their actions, their results, their work… and they blame everyone and everything. We’ve all done it and seen it done.  So remind yourself and be responsible for your power by reminding yourself of these 5 things:

1. I am always responsible for everything that happens in my world.

2. I am always responsible for my results. Yes I can ask for help and support, read books, attend seminars, take my mentors/managers on sales calls…in the end it’s all about me.

3. It’s always about me. No one cares what Jack, Jane, and Bob did or did not do. They only care about what I did, how I responded, and overcame any particular situation.

4. It’s always about me!!!  Listen, I had to learn the hard way…the God I serve will only ask me about what I did and how did I make life better on planet Earth. How did I use the talents He gave me?  How did I treat the sick, homeless,  and the poor? How did I help my brothers/sisters in need? He’s not going to ask me about Steve Harvey and his success. He’s only concerned with “What did Earl do?”  He will deal with Steve Harvey directly.

5. The biggest take away – it keeps the power focused on me. When you blame others for your mishaps etc…you give away more than your self-power, you give away your “control”  over your ability to create your life to the fullest of your definition of success.    It doesn’t mean you will not have troubles, set backs, people quitting on  you, etc. It just means that you must focus on what you can control which is: yourself, your emotions, your integrity, your actions, and your being.  That’s best you can do in any situation. When you start to blame someone else for anything about you… what you “can’t do, shouldn’t do, won’t do.” Just stop and say, “It’s about me. I’m an adult. How do I make this work?”

Never forget it’s all always about you, because you are the only piece of the puzzle you can move and control.

3. Final piece of the puzzle on success…is just the failure to action. No one has ever raised money for any charity without asking for donations. No one has ever made a cake without getting the ingredients, mixing them, and putting them in the oven. No one has ran a marathon while sitting on the couch. No one has passed any educational program without attending the course either online or in person.  You can’t drive a car without starting the engine. Action, action, action, action. You can’t claim to be in touch and or believe in the law of attraction without taking inspired action!!!! Action!!!  Lack of action to achieve a goal is failure in action.   People get so stuck on “I don’t what to do first.” “I can’t talk to my up-line.” People come up with excuse after excuse as to why they can’t take action to reach their goals.  We’ve all done it. The fastest way to get over this is so simple, but we all just don’t want to do.photo-1452626038306-9aae5e071dd3

1. Take action!

2. Take small action steps?

3. Set a date and time by when you will take action?

4. Take action!!!!

Some think their actions have to be big and huge. Listen…no one that you and I consider to be successful got there over night. Anthony Robbins, Louise Hay, even Eckhart Tolle  all had their small starts and setbacks, etc.  My nephews didn’t come out of their moms walking and talking (although I swear they did.)  I want you to think about to your first driving lesson. What actions did you take to learn how to drive? How did you get your parents to help you learn?  What did you have change about your belief in your abilities to drive?  So it doesn’t matter if you want do Herbal Life or Amway, or internet affiliate marketing, or sale home pregnancy test door to door. It all requires actions to get started and build. So get started right where you are…do what you know to do. Look at the results and make corrections as required. Get a coach/mentor…to help shorten your learning curve so that you can take actions faster and adjust quicker.

These are just 3 quick reasons as to why success seems so distant for folks. There are more and we will discuss them. For now let’s focus on these for these they are the foundation. If you don’t have faith in yourself, you won’t take action. If you aren’t taking actions chances are you are blaming something/someone for your failure or inability to win, which means that you aren’t taking responsibility for yourself and your dreams, which probably means you don’t know what you want. If you knew what you want, then you would not let anyone get in your way.  It’s no different than going to store to buy your favorite after a hard day at the job snack. You let nothing stop you from that… or put gas in your car.  It’s no different when your kid needs to get to the doctor – you move heaven and hell to make it happen. Bring that energy and drive to your goals…and watch them manifest right before your eyes.

Take care!

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